"I decided to start this blog for one simple reason. I have quite of briliant ideas but I tend to forget them. On the other hand diary wont do much of the job. Eventually I will need recognition before I die and someone publishes it. My theories are all I got right now, and lucky you I am about to share them."
Theory No1 Long Lasting Relationships
No no no pink clouds, endless love and ultimate acceptance of your significant other flaws. There are 3 main reasons for someone to remain in such a situation and these are :
1. Low Self-Esteem
Low self-esteem prevents you of going hunting. You don't belive in yourself and your abilities. You are happy you have found someone and you are reluctant to lose him even when things don't go well and love or passion is missing. You are settling down, compromising yourself with a person that might not make you happy. And all this insecurity finds confort in someone's other sweet talk...whoever this one is.
2. Too Busy
Busy people are busy. Busy to devote time to their partner, busy to identify things they don't like, busy to start all over again with a new person. Busy people have priority money or career. They need someone they like maybe love sometime and thats it. If they stop working, and if they got all the money they needed do you believe they would preserve their current relationship no matter what??
3. Too Bored
Yes sometimes after countless relationships and part time partners you relize that you want to settle down and even start a family. Yes you are in an age you cannot party anymore, you cannot switch lovers everyday and in fact you are bored to even talk to one. The next approximately close enought to your critiria person that feels the same will be your long lasting relationship. No love no passion, none of these are the reasons to KEEP it. It is just timing.
For you my romantic love birds of course crush, passion and love exists...it is just temporary. You want to maintain it? good luck in that.
If you have cought yourself wondering how to maintain your relationship, already something is wrong.
Many tips will help you to prolong it but in the end you 'll get both of you tired and make it more painful for the one puting all the effort.
